"If your children die, then it was all a waste," said Grego. 'No,' said Olhado quietly, "You say that because you have no children, Grego. But none of it is wasted."

The child you hold in your arms for only a moment before he dies, that is not wasted, because that one day is purpose in itself.
Entropy has been thrown back for an hour, a day, a week, a month, a few years, or more.

Just because we might all die here on this little world does not undo the lives before the deaths. Grego shook his head. 'Yes it does, Olhado. Death undoes everything.' "No," Olhado shrugged. "Because someday you will die."

"Someday we all will die, our children will die, and their children will die. Someday stars will wind down or blow up. Someday death will cover us all like the water of a lake and perhaps nothing will ever come to the surface to show that we were ever there. But we were there, and during the time we lived, we were alive. "

"That's the truth - what is, what was, what will be - not what could be, what should have been, what never can be. If we die, then our death has meaning to the rest of the universe. Even if our lives are unknown, the fact that someone lived here, and died, that will have repercussions, that will shape the universe."

-Orson Scott Card, from Children of the Mind


Star Light, Star Bright
First star I see tonight
I wish I may
I wish I might
Have this wish - I wish tonight...


Useful Information

Neonatology InfoWhat does NICU do?
Download Information Brochure for Parents of  Babies in Neonatal Intensive Care

March of Dimes  ReadMore

Web Resources
Links to businesses/useful resources which
have helped me through my grief journey:


Biscuit and Moo Photographer Garageink- Tattoo and Piercing Studio  
Sue Ella Signature Silver Little Miss Dressup  


Vanessa Gorman-Inspiring Story Healing and Essential oils National Premmie Foundation
Traditional Funerals Spirit Whispers Grief
Sane Information for Parents Life Line
Sids and Kids Jen-Irishu-Author Inspiration Gallery  arrowarrow

Music Videos

A few beautiful songs/clips from you-tube I have included as  I find music very healing:

What Makes a Mother  Gone Too Soon You're beautiful - James Blunt
Pearl Jam - Just Breath Beyoncé - Halo Truly Madly Deeply - Savage Garden
Goo Goo Dolls - Iris Nothing Compares to You All my Life - Thirsty Merc
Not Afraid- Eminem If Time is all I Have - James Blunt Goodbye my Lover - James Blunt
Matisyahu - One Day The Promise - Tracy Chapman Eminem- Till I Collapse


support"It isn't the size of the gift that matters, but the size of the heart that gives it."

"Alone we can do so little; together we can do so much."
- Helen Keller

"The dead, if one venerates their memory, are more present and more powerful than the living."
-Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

"Success is how HIGH you bounce when you hit bottom."
- George S. Patton

"Kind Words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless."
- Mother Teresa

"Stand for something or you will fall for anything. Today's mighty oak is yesterday's nut that held its ground."

"I wanted to call you today to say I love you, but your old number is no longer in service. I tried the operator she said 'sorry I have no number for you'. I tried to go to your house, but you don't live there anymore. The post office has no forwarding address. I guess heaven is just too far away. I Love You, I Miss You. You are in my heart always and forever. Copy and paste in remembrance of Loved ones gone but not forgotten xx "

"Children with disabilities are like butterflies with broken wings. They're just as beautiful as other children but they just need a little help to spread their wings. "


The Heartbreak of Infant Loss
The Heartbreak of Infant Loss

Our Little Miracle

Our Little Miracle

RBWH researches whether music therapy can aid brain
development in premature babies

    Baby Reacts to Music

The Brain Project


Mother and Baby

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